When I met my husband he was a teetotaler who didn't really hang out beyond playing gigs.
Now, he's at a club every weekend getting drunk and, I guess, picking up women. *blink*
Maybe it's a mid-life crisis, maybe he's tired of being responsible and he's "acting out," but I know that the person he is now is not anybody I want to be married to.
And soon I won't be.
So, there ya go.